Wednesday, March 23, 2011

GRACIOUSNESS- A COMPLEMENT TO BEAUTY

A gracious spirit enhances a woman's demeanor, while a selfish heart tarnishes her appearance and limits her effectiveness. the word "gracious" is used to describe God Himself (Exodus 34:6; Neh. 9:17;Psalm 111:4).

Abigail was a gracious woman. she realized and accepted her husband's weak habits (1 Sam. 25:23-31). She poised herself before David with respect, kindness and courtesy. Yet in so doing she showed deference to her husband and others by taking upon herself reponsibility for the lack of hospitality.
The Moabitess Ruth was a quite woman whose perseverance complemented her beauty. She was gracious to her mother-in-law even when Naomi was absorbed in bitterness and self-pity (Ruth 2:2). Her strong character and gracious manner were eventually rewarded with a devoted husand and important offsprinf(4:13).

Having experienced God's forgiveness and love should increase a woman's sensitivity to another's needs. A condescending or resentful attitude doen not exemplify graciousness. Believers are challenged to be gracious, kind, merciful and forgiving (Neh. 9:17).

A christain reflects God's Kingdom by words spoken. Wise words are gracious,but foolish words are damaging (Ecc. 10:12). Believers are also admonished to speak with kindness and truth (Col. 3:12,13). Words can scar the heart and forever damage reputation and relationship. To posses graciousness is to showcase His love and channel His care to a needy world.

As an end in itself, graciousness or charm is merely a pleasing manner which has been developed through painstaking determination to do certain things in order to win the favor of family and friends. In other words, it is an outward polish or refinement. However, if this graciousness is the fruit of godly character, springing from a heart committed to the Lord, then such charm becomes a tool for drawing others to the saviour and for service to Christ in the Kingdom. Such a "gracious" woman retains a great honour.

I pray for you that even as you consiously begin to develop this godly character, the Holy Spirit will strengthen and empower you in journey to be a better person.

NOW IS THE BEST TIME TO START!!!

Remain Beautiful, even as God's pride. Stay connected to God and Have yourself a Blissful weekend.

Stay Blessed.
You have no Limit!

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