Friday, September 27, 2013

THE VIRTUOUS WIFE OF PROVERBS

Proverbs 31: 10-31

Many outstanding godly women appear throughout the Bible, but the virtuous wife described here merits special praise (Proverbs 31:29). This woman was a wife and mother. For centuries women have been amazed and challenged by her life (verse 31).
The passage describes what kind of wife a woman should be and what kind of woman a man should choose to marry. An acrostic poem, each of the twenty-two verses begins with a successive letter of the Hebrew alphabet, encouraging the memorization of this literary masterpiece. We are not told who she was but what she was.

This rare woman was a paragon of virtue: trustworthy, industrious, organized and loving. Yet amazingly she was able to order the priorities of her world. Her husband totally trusted her; her grown children voluntarily praised her, and her home was a model of efficiency. Still she finds time to reach out to her community, to help the poor and even to increase her family’s resources through wise investments and productive management of all placed in her care. Moreover, she was as outwardly beautiful as she was inwardly wise.

The portrait of the virtuous wife closes with the key to her success (v. 30). Illustrating the theme of wisdom found throughout proverbs, this woman first feared and reverenced God. Therefore, relationships and responsibilities were wisely balanced. She exemplifies the truth spoken by Jesus Christ “Seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness and all these things shall be added to you” (Matt. 6:3). A close look at this woman can prove invaluable in helping every woman set her own priorities in managing the time, resources and giftedness God has given.

ME-Vows: The Promises You Must Make With Yourself



So today i got a cal from one of my very good friend that one of our friends that got married late last year is recently divorced. I was quite shock considering that they were barely 5 months when they got separated.

"I promise to love, honor and cherish you...," the proverbial vows we've all witnessed at one wedding ceremony or another, each person taking a vow to be with the other forever, a serious and deep commitment for sure. Yet today's divorce rate still hovers around 50%.

Why? Are we just a society full of vow breakers, who don't put much integrity into our words? The statistics say one in two people will break their vows because of issues like infidelity, abuse, sex and money, however, if you look deeper, you'll see that those are just symptoms of a cause that was present way before the marriage, engagement, and even the dating. The real problem starts when we are single, and continues to wreak havoc as we create relationships. The real culprit? You. The real problem? You forgot to make some very critical promises first with the most important partner in your life, yourself.

The fact is that every relationship starts and ends with the relationship we first have with ME. So before you go making any promises to anyone else, take the following ME-Vows with yourself, and then get started living them.

Stay tuned for more on the "ME Vows".



Stay Blessed.
You have no Limit!

Tuesday, March 29, 2011

WOMEN AS CREATOR

AS CHILDREN OF A CREATOR GOD; we seem hardwired to practice our own unique versions of the creative process. Many gardeners describe their most sacred moments of connection to God as those when they plant and cultivate–participating in the holy process of growth. Weavers weave the threads of their lives in divine harmony as they practice their craft on the loom. Cooks lose themselves in the colors and textures of food, blending them into reminders to “taste and see that the LORD is good” (Psalm. 34:8). Photographers report that zooming in on a flower or widening the lens for a landscape opens them to the wonder of creation. Painting, singing, writing, knitting, shaping pottery–all creative activities can be potentially prayerful pursuits.

It does not matter where you find yourself at this particular moment, you can always use it as a means to reach God. He does not need the world from you.

'TAKE THE LITTLE YOU HAVE AND MAKE IT GREAT; HE IS EL-SHADDAI AND HE WILL MORE THAN SUPPLY YOUR NEEDS'.

Embracing the Cross is hard... bearing it is harder still. The cross’s beams are rough to the touch and burdensome. We never get all the splinters out. The cross is awkward to maneuver through the house and the office, and many days almost seems to work against whoever would carry it. The cross chafes the shoulders, bends the neck—and breaks the heart. No wonder that I want to lay it aside, throw it down, unburden myself of the cross and its demands. . . .

But choosing the cross means life; choosing life without it means death. Only by entering the darkness can we begin to find the light.

Don't ever compromise your walk with Christ, Regardless of your situation and circumstances... They will only last for a while... It will surely pass over you... It is just a TEST and you have to pass to show yourself approved.

"STAND STILL AND KNOW THAT HE IS GOD" and He is with you all the WAY!

Stay Beautiful and Remain God's pride.

Stay Blessed.
You Have no Limit!

Wednesday, March 23, 2011

GRACIOUSNESS- A COMPLEMENT TO BEAUTY

A gracious spirit enhances a woman's demeanor, while a selfish heart tarnishes her appearance and limits her effectiveness. the word "gracious" is used to describe God Himself (Exodus 34:6; Neh. 9:17;Psalm 111:4).

Abigail was a gracious woman. she realized and accepted her husband's weak habits (1 Sam. 25:23-31). She poised herself before David with respect, kindness and courtesy. Yet in so doing she showed deference to her husband and others by taking upon herself reponsibility for the lack of hospitality.
The Moabitess Ruth was a quite woman whose perseverance complemented her beauty. She was gracious to her mother-in-law even when Naomi was absorbed in bitterness and self-pity (Ruth 2:2). Her strong character and gracious manner were eventually rewarded with a devoted husand and important offsprinf(4:13).

Having experienced God's forgiveness and love should increase a woman's sensitivity to another's needs. A condescending or resentful attitude doen not exemplify graciousness. Believers are challenged to be gracious, kind, merciful and forgiving (Neh. 9:17).

A christain reflects God's Kingdom by words spoken. Wise words are gracious,but foolish words are damaging (Ecc. 10:12). Believers are also admonished to speak with kindness and truth (Col. 3:12,13). Words can scar the heart and forever damage reputation and relationship. To posses graciousness is to showcase His love and channel His care to a needy world.

As an end in itself, graciousness or charm is merely a pleasing manner which has been developed through painstaking determination to do certain things in order to win the favor of family and friends. In other words, it is an outward polish or refinement. However, if this graciousness is the fruit of godly character, springing from a heart committed to the Lord, then such charm becomes a tool for drawing others to the saviour and for service to Christ in the Kingdom. Such a "gracious" woman retains a great honour.

I pray for you that even as you consiously begin to develop this godly character, the Holy Spirit will strengthen and empower you in journey to be a better person.

NOW IS THE BEST TIME TO START!!!

Remain Beautiful, even as God's pride. Stay connected to God and Have yourself a Blissful weekend.

Stay Blessed.
You have no Limit!