Friday, September 27, 2013

THE VIRTUOUS WIFE OF PROVERBS

Proverbs 31: 10-31

Many outstanding godly women appear throughout the Bible, but the virtuous wife described here merits special praise (Proverbs 31:29). This woman was a wife and mother. For centuries women have been amazed and challenged by her life (verse 31).
The passage describes what kind of wife a woman should be and what kind of woman a man should choose to marry. An acrostic poem, each of the twenty-two verses begins with a successive letter of the Hebrew alphabet, encouraging the memorization of this literary masterpiece. We are not told who she was but what she was.

This rare woman was a paragon of virtue: trustworthy, industrious, organized and loving. Yet amazingly she was able to order the priorities of her world. Her husband totally trusted her; her grown children voluntarily praised her, and her home was a model of efficiency. Still she finds time to reach out to her community, to help the poor and even to increase her family’s resources through wise investments and productive management of all placed in her care. Moreover, she was as outwardly beautiful as she was inwardly wise.

The portrait of the virtuous wife closes with the key to her success (v. 30). Illustrating the theme of wisdom found throughout proverbs, this woman first feared and reverenced God. Therefore, relationships and responsibilities were wisely balanced. She exemplifies the truth spoken by Jesus Christ “Seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness and all these things shall be added to you” (Matt. 6:3). A close look at this woman can prove invaluable in helping every woman set her own priorities in managing the time, resources and giftedness God has given.

ME-Vows: The Promises You Must Make With Yourself



So today i got a cal from one of my very good friend that one of our friends that got married late last year is recently divorced. I was quite shock considering that they were barely 5 months when they got separated.

"I promise to love, honor and cherish you...," the proverbial vows we've all witnessed at one wedding ceremony or another, each person taking a vow to be with the other forever, a serious and deep commitment for sure. Yet today's divorce rate still hovers around 50%.

Why? Are we just a society full of vow breakers, who don't put much integrity into our words? The statistics say one in two people will break their vows because of issues like infidelity, abuse, sex and money, however, if you look deeper, you'll see that those are just symptoms of a cause that was present way before the marriage, engagement, and even the dating. The real problem starts when we are single, and continues to wreak havoc as we create relationships. The real culprit? You. The real problem? You forgot to make some very critical promises first with the most important partner in your life, yourself.

The fact is that every relationship starts and ends with the relationship we first have with ME. So before you go making any promises to anyone else, take the following ME-Vows with yourself, and then get started living them.

Stay tuned for more on the "ME Vows".



Stay Blessed.
You have no Limit!